Dating isn’t for wimps. It is now 2017 and the romance scene has changed dramatically just in the last decade or so. Phone calls have been largely replaced by texts, social media has made our lives a glass bowl and the Internet has opened a whole new can of worms when it comes to dating in these modern times.
Not to fear, however. I and my world-class team at Motiive have put together a blueprint to help you navigate through the perils of all things women. Whether you are looking for dating tips for shy guys or advanced tactics for helping your three-year relationship get to the next level, we’ve got exactly what you need.
Lucky for you, we’ve boiled down the formula for attracting women into 3 steps that any guy can follow. Some may be better than others at some (or all) of the steps compared to others. No worries. We give you the advice and resources to whip yourself into shape to give yourself the best chance at meeting and attracting women that you are interested in. To check out the 3-Step Action Plan in all it’s glory, see our top online tips for men:
For those of you looking for the Cliff Notes version, here you go—The 3 Steps are:
Confidence is as important as ever in the dating game. Without confidence, the other two steps are useless. The big secret here is that women take their cue about you from you. If you think you don’t belong in the same room with her, she will pick up on that and agree that you don’t belong in the same room with her.
If, on the other hand, you demonstrate that you are not intimidated to talk to her, you are giving yourself a chance and earning her respect. How do you beef up your self confidence? Read the confidence section of our guide to attracting girls!
There is an art to everything, and communication with a woman is no different. Even if you are brimming with confidence, if you are not a good communicator you will kill your chances at getting the girl. You have to know how to approach women (small talk), but you also have to keep the conversation going once you’ve gotten to know her a bit better. Both scenarios require a different skillset, so in order to get to the next step you’ll need to master both.
Finally, you’ll need to become a ninja texter. In case you’ve been living in a cave, texting is the preferred way to chat with women nowadays, especially in the early stages when you are building up to asking her out on a date. This is the third prong of the communication trilogy, and it is a must if you wish to exit the friend zone at some point.
Let’s face it. Looks matter. But that doesn’t mean you have to be a fashion model to date women. We are turned on by confidence, meaningful conversation and the many things that make you a unique and decent guy. So yes, appearance matters, but the good news is we aren’t all that picky. As long as you take care of your hygiene and have some sense of personal style, we are pretty accepting. For our best tips on appearance, style and fashion, see our guide on how to attract women.
Men in relationships tend to forget that they are still, in fact, dating. The term “familiarity breeds contempt” is all too often a fact of life in many relationships. You are both on your best behavior in the beginning.
But as time goes on you tend to take things for granted and stop doing all the things that brought you together in the first place. To that end, the Motiive team has put together an essential guide to improving any relationship. Check out all the details here:
Variety is the Spice of Life
While the details can be found through the link above, I’ll hit the high points here for those looking for a summary. Among the most important of all relationship advice for guys is the need to keep things fresh. Routines are normal, even necessary. But that doesn’t mean you can’t surprise her with a gift “for no reason” or with plans to try a new adventure together. Just like you get bored doing the same things all the time, relationships can suffer the same fate. Use a little creativity to get out of your rut and spice things up!
Communication: The Secret Weapon Of Healthy Relationships
Just as communication is key for guys in search of a girlfriend, so it is for guys in established relationships. While couples getting to know each other happily explore their new love, couples that have been together for a while often neglect communication. While the physical aspects are important, the mental and emotional aspects are what create the real bond for a pair. Physical only relationships tend to flame out pretty quickly. If you want something that will last, make communicating with and learning about your partner an ongoing endeavor. For more dating tips, see the full guide: Relationship Advice For Guys
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