Looking for flirty texts to send a girl? Doing it the right way is more than just firing off a few cute one-liners. How you go about messaging hotties will determine whether you score a date or get ignored. With that said, here is the official guide to the perfect flirt text:
Flirty Texts: 3 Steps To Messaging Mastery
1. Get To The Point!
Too many guys spend way too much time blabbing on and on about this and that with a girl. Most guys think that just because they are having a text conversation and a girl is responding, then you must be getting somewhere.
While it seems like you are building rapport, you are actually getting nowhere romantically. Instead, you are carving out a nice spot in the “friend zone” with all the other guys that will never have a chance at dating her.
Step 1 Action Plan & Resources:
To find out how to get to the point in text messaging, click to see our post on the magnetic messaging method of texting women.
2. Don’t Be Boring!
You have to remember that hot women are constantly being hit on and asked for their number. Which mean they get a LOT of texts from random guys all looking for a hookup. If you are going to flirt with a girl over text, you have to say something that sets you apart from all the other guys vying for her attention! If you are boring her by saying these like, “hey, nice meeting you,” or “cool talking to you at the party,” she will not remember you, and chances are she won’t even try to recall who you are, what you look like, or what you talked about.
Again, attractive women appreciate guys that can show a little creativity. This is especially important in a message, because when you are flirting via text, she can not see your facial expression or hear the tone in your voice. Instead, the words in the text need to have enough pizzazz to grab her attention on their own.
Step 2 Action Plan & Resources
To find out the secrets of flirting through text without being boring, click through here to get a free copy of our special report: 7 Deadly Texting Mistakes. In it, you’ll learn how to avoid sleep-inducing messages while crafting spicy texts that will get you noticed.
3. Keep Your Emotions In Check!
You’ve probably heard women complain about men that never show their emotions. It’s true that many guys are pretty private with their feelings. But many others share way TOO MUCH or inappropriately. What do I mean? Here are a few examples:
- Being needy–texting her all the time, constantly checking on her
- Offering too many compliments–going on and on about how great she looks, how smart she is, etc.
- Sharing how you feel about her: telling her you love her, care about her, etc.
There is nothing wrong with some of these, like complementing a girl, IF it’s in the right context. What we are talking about in this article is how to text a girl you have recently met with the goal of getting her to go on a date with you. If you are already dating, it is normal to text more often and tell her you love her. If you just met last night at a party, however, these behaviors put you in the land of the creepy.
Step 3 Action Plan & Resources
To discover how to convey interest without going overboard with your emotions, click through here to grab our free report, 7 Deadly Texting Mistakes. This guide goes into more detail about the above 3 steps and gives you more awesome tips and strategies on flirting with text messages.
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